We went and hung out at James' house after school for a change. His flat, at the top of his family home is fine for him, or the two of us, but got v cramped with 4 of us. Ben and max were having a chat with Grandad as we were leaving so I got to meet him at last! He asked a lot of questions, inc one about 'my husband' with regard to how tall Ben is (very). I said afterwards to j that his dad did not seem to know I was going out with his son. 'I tell him nothing!' he said. Which I thought was odd, but then I am Ms Open and everyone is different. I just made a joke and dismissed it. It got too late for swimming so boys played here on bikes - and both fell off and had to be patched up bravely - not. All was solved by International Rescue and all three boys had a Thunderbirds love-in while I pottered happily with my plants. James cooked dinner for everyone which was just lovely! Max wanted to stay over but didn't really so they've gone home, B is asleep and I am off to bed with a book.